Wow! This move was SO difficult for us. Maybe you are thinking that it is because we moved for 4 people this time and not for just 2. That wasn't it. It will probably seem like I made this stuff up, but I promise I didn't. Here is a summary of the things that made this move so hard:
1. Day before the move, Kevin was going to pick up some lunch and a car was travelling the WRONG direction on the road and hit Kevin's truck, then left the scene. Hit and run accident. Thankfully both vehicles were travelling slowly and Kevin was not hurt beyond having a very sore back for a few days. Payment of insurance deductible number 1.
2. Movers were AWFUL. Used them before and they were great. No so this time. They broke some things, damaged 2 walls and a door frame in the new house, took clothes out of dressers that I was told they would move while still in the drawers and they threw them on the floor, took our dining room table apart when Kevin told them not to and it took over 1 hour to put it back together..... RRrrrrrrggggh.
3. Second night in the house. Kevin gets up to take his truck to the repair shop to get it fixed after hit and run accident. Back wheels on his truck are GONE! Stolen right out of our driveway in our brand new house. What is up with that? We didn't even know who to call. So, we called the city first and they directed us to the county but told Kevin that other wheels were stolen in our area the same night. Later learned that the wheels were stolen from the truck belonging to Donovan's pre-K teacher's husband that night, too. Payment of insurance deductible 2. :(
4. A couple of days later there was a wild electrical thunderstorm during the night. Kevin's nephew decided to send him a text message at 4:30 a.m. Kevin went to look to see what was so important and when he picked up his phone, it shocked him!!!!! Popped so loud I heard it, Kevin yelled and I and jumped out of bed certain that I needed to do CPR and call 911. Not only was Kevin okay (praise God), but it didn't even hurt the phone (much to his disappointment - he does NOT like his cell phone and surely could have upgraded early if the lightening had fried it). Text message was NOT important at all. Nephew had just figured out something that Kevin had told him the previous day.
4 (continued): Lightening that poppped Kevin also caused our newly installed alarm system to go off. Since our electricity was knocked out at the same moment, it rendered the key pad unusable, so we couldn't turn off the alarm. Had to call the alarm company to cancel the police request (they couldn't reach us when they called because electricity failure kept our phone from working, too) and get someone to come out in the horrible weather to stop the alarm from screaming through our house and neighborhood. Boy, is it ever loud!!!! Took about an hour by the time our house was quiet again. Kudos to our electricity provider. They were able to restore our lights REALLY fast! :)
4 (continued again): Next day we discovered that the storm did more damage than we expected. Part of our alarm system was fried and had to be replaced. Our internet service was knocked out because the modem was also fried by the electrical surge. I had just gotten it connected the night before after several very LONG and frustrating conversations with Verizon's scripted customer service department. And our garage door opener that was only 2 days old was also rendered inoperable by the storm. The board was damaged by the electricity and had to be replaced.
5. Kevin tried to move his gas grill on his own. One wheel fell off the corner of the patio and it caused the grill to land on Kevin's big toe - definitely appears to be broken. Very red and swollen. He says it hurts really badly, but there is really nothing you can do for a broken toe. :(
6. Got a new sofa. Kevin brought it home in his truck. I was all ready to show off my arm muscles (thank to lifting a 3 and 5 year old) by helping Kevin bring it into the house. The neighbor lady across the street comes outside and says "Wait. My husband will help." Okay. I don't want to insult his manhood by saying I can do it, so we wait and he comes right over. There is a bit of a height difference between the neighbor and Kevin. So, they begin to lift the sofa out of the truck, some physics occurs with the assistance of the static plastic that is wrapped around the sofa to protect it. Sofa falls, they catch it, but the neighbor yells "Ouch!" We set it down (I'm helping now after all). When we pick it up again, he yells "Set it down, set it down." Doesn't sound good. We ultimately got the sofa in the house. Next day we check on the neighbor. He had to have orthopedic surgery to repair the muscle that he ripped from the bone trying to lift the sofa. I'm sure they are SO happy to have us as neighbors!
6 (continued) Forgot to mention that the store didn't strap the whole sofa and matching ottoman into Kevin's truck very well. On the way home, the ottoman flew out and tumbled end-over-end tearing the fabric. Had to get a new one. But that is nothing compared to the damage suffered by our new neighbor.
7. Our plasma television died, too. I hooked it up and it was working great. Took Jonathan to the bathroom, came back and the picture was gone. After about an hour of troubleshooting with our satellite provider, we determined it was the television. Finally bought a new one last night.
I'm sure I am forgetting something. It has been overwhelming. But the house is finally starting to come together. I'm getting things unpacked and put away. Pictures are getting hung a little at a time and it is starting to look and feel like home. And home it will be until Donovan and Jonathan graduate in a blue cap and gown. After this experience, we will NOT be moving again until retirement. :)